Friday, November 30, 2012

10 years ago today and updates on the twins

I was suppose to be married for 10 years today to what I thought was my best friend. Little did I know that things would totally change about 4-5 years after we got married. We went through our first miscarriage a week after we got married. I was around 16 weeks pregnant. Then in 2006 we lost our son Drake. Then in 2007 I had 2 more miscarriages and 1 last one in 2008. We were constantly fighting and arguing and in February 2011 he decided that he wanted a divorce. I moved out and moved in with some friends because I couldn't stand the thought of staying somewhere I was not welcome. We had moved into a house with some other friends and they split up and later got a divorce too. Well my ex and what was suppose to be  one of my best friends started seeing each other (and they are now married.) After I moved out I had already decided that I wanted to move back home to Georgia, so in the beginning of May after I quit working I came up to Georgia to visit and while I was here I got reacquainted with an old friend and had a blast the weekend I was here. We started talking like everyday and decided to be together. So when I moved up here on May 15th we moved in together. We ended up not being able to afford the apartment that we were living in so we moved up to the campground where he has a camper. Well in August we found out that we were expecting. We kept it a secret until January because I wanted to make sure everything was going okay before I told anyone (due to my previous history). Well on January 30th we found out we were having twins ( a boy & a girl). I couldn't have asked for a better pregnancy. On April 18th we went in for our scheduled c-section and both babies came out screaming ( this was the best sound in the world, because I never got to hear Drake cry). Today the twins are almost 7 1/2 months old and learning more and more stuff everyday. They both have 2 teeth and are working on more. Cooper gets into everything and Harmony still just rolls everywhere. I am so excited for their first Christmas and in 2 weeks they get to see their Nana (who they haven't seen since they were a month old) and their Uncle (that they haven't met yet). So there's my update for now, it's kinda long winded but I needed to get it out.

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Long over due update

I am going to start trying to post more on here about the daily life of raising the twins. Their are 6 1/2 months old. They are growing more and more everyday and learning new things. Cooper is scooting all over the place and trying to get into everything. He has two teeth so far. Harmony just rolls everywhere and has no teeth yet but she is working on them.